Identify What’s Holding You Back and How to Move Forward
THE FULFILLMENT GAP TEST
Have you ever felt like you’re working harder than ever, yet something still feels off? Are stress, perfectionism, or fear of missing out (FOMO) holding you back from feeling truly fulfilled?

This test will show where you are right now and provide actionable next steps to help you to find impactful direction to live with more alignment, confidence, clarity, high performance, joy, and peace.

This is not a personality test—it’s a tool to help you identify where you are right now. Throughout life, we move through different stages of development. We may find ourselves aligned and fulfilled, feeling lost, overdoing things, or stuck in a state of internal conflict.

These states are completely normal, especially for high achievers. By identifying your current position on the Fulfillment Quadrant, you can gain clarity and a more precise direction to move closer to fulfillment, alignment, and peace.

Take a deep breath, answer honestly, and let’s begin your journey toward greater clarity and joy.
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RESULTS

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► Scores ranging from 10-19 would be considered ALIGNED state.
You feel confident, authentic, and balanced; managing stress well and living in alignment with core values. For those in the Aligned State, the key is learning how to maintain consistency and return to alignment more quickly when you inevitably find yourself feeling lost, conflicted, or overcompensating again. Without conscious techniques and intentional plans to sustain this state and realign when needed, it’s easy to drift away. To deepen your self-knowledge and strengthen your ability to stay aligned, join our ELI Coaching. The most fitting options for you are 1:1 coaching or our Impact Leading ELI Programs, designed to help you sustain alignment and maximize your potential.
► Scores ranging from 20-29 would be considered CONFLICTED state.
You know who you are but struggle to express yourself fully; you feel that something holds you back from realizing your incredible potential. You may often find yourself in conflict, feeling misunderstood, or even as if you’re submitting to life’s challenges. You know you’re capable of so much more, yet the environment seems to keep raising walls, leaving you feeling like you’re hitting your head against an abyss. To move beyond this state, you need to develop a strategic approach to position yourself with greater intention and care. You excel at caring for and promoting others—now it’s time to prioritize yourself and your needs. The most fitting option for you is the ELI Group Coaching Self-Leadership Sprint Program, designed to help you reclaim your focus, strengthen your position, and move toward clarity and impact.
► Scores ranging from 30-39 would be considered OVERCOMPENSATING state.
You are very successful but also feeling a lot of anxiety, doubts, and FOMO (Fear Of Missing Out). You tend to overwork, overprepare, overcommit, have strong tendencies to please, and struggle with perfectionism. To move out of the Overcompensating State, the key is learning to set strategic boundaries that empower you with the freedom to show your full potential. You must master precise decision-making techniques to reduce stress and overcome crippling self-doubt. The most fitting option for you is the ELI Group Coaching Self-Leadership Sprint Program, where you’ll gain tools to take back control and move toward alignment. If you’re seeking faster, deeper transformation and growth, 1:1 coaching will deliver the quickest and most impactful results.
► Scores ranging from 40-50 would be considered LOST state.
At this moment you could feel overwhelmed, disconnected, and directionless. When we find ourselves in the Lost State, what we need most is care and gentleness toward ourselves. While this state can feel deeply uncomfortable, it is also a necessary and powerful part of our journey. It’s a clear sign that you are ready for a major transformation. We promise this state is temporary. The first step toward change is to redefine your values and purpose and begin reconnecting with yourself. The most fitting program for you is the ELI Purpose Setting Program, designed to guide you toward clarity, direction, and renewed alignment. You will also greatly benefit by downloading Joe Jacobi's journaling framework. It isn’t just a tool - it’s a life-changer. Writing is good for the soul, but structured guidance helps you unlock self-understanding and take charge of your life, leading you to your own version of gold.
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